Why Train Your Dog?
I wrote this little blurb for my last company when it briefly had an internal pet care community board for it’s employees. I wrote it over a decade ago. I like how it shows consistency of how I train and how I work to teach others how to train with their dogs. As much as I have grown as a dog trainer and a human being since I wrote this blurb, it shows that I have grown because of the work I have put in building a solid foundation in my body of work training with dogs.
Here is the little blurb:
Why Train Your Dog?
Do you think that training your dog will interfere with your dog being a dog? Training isn’t about diminishing your dog’s “dogness.” Training is about communication and relationships. Training enables a pet parent to communicate with their dog. The end results are enhanced relationships between dogs and their people. Ultimately, training equals freedom for the dog. The more a dog is trained, the more freedoms the dog is allowed. Instead of locking your dog in a crate or outside, because he is rude when company comes through the door, training teaches your dog an acceptable, alternative behavior. Instead of jumping on a guest, you can teach your dog to go to a mat while people walk through the door. Once the guest is sitting and relaxed the dog can be taught to go say “Hello” in a polite manner, such as sitting in front of the guest to be petted. Training allows the dog to truly be a part of the family. The more we train our dogs, the more we can learn to read their body language so we can get glimpses into their state of mind. This allows us to look at things from our dog’s point of view. This allows the relationship to be interactive and dynamic, instead of just what the person wants out of it. Training helps us develop a compassionate, empathetic, and connected relationship with our dogs.
One of the main things I have changed over the years has been the wording I use when talking about dog training. I used to simply discuss training your dog. And training your dog is important, but I think when I shifted and started saying, “training with your dog”, it went from something one does to their dog to something someone does with their dog. The addition of the word “with” makes the dog a partner in the training. The more I train with Rainy and Shine, my two black Labrador Retrievers, the more they learn how to communicate with me and understand what I want and need them to do. I think the most important part of using the word “with” when training with dogs is that I am even more open to listening to them more than I was at the beginning of my training journey decades ago. I love that they learn to understand me, but I also love that I learn to understand them and all their individual nuances of communication. I love to make them happy when I have taken the time to listen and I see the joy sparkle in their eyes when they ask that I throw their retrieving dummy one more time and I give them what they ask for! The giving back and forth is what a truly clever and connected relationship is all about!!
I hope you find joy in training with your dogs! What is one thing your dog does for you that makes you happy? What is one thing you do for your dog that causes the joy sparkle in their eyes?!